If These Bookshelves Could Talk….

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From the January 2013 issue of Architectural Digest....The home library of Ellen DeGeneres & Portia de Rossi Photo courtesy of Kathleen Clements Design

From the January 2013 issue of Architectural Digest….The home library of Ellen DeGeneres & Portia de Rossi
Photo courtesy of Kathleen Clements Design

Do your bookshelves tell the story of your life?

There are only a few books that I wish to have for all eternity. And when I say “few”, I mean 30 moving boxes full of books.

Some of the happiest hours of my happy childhood were spent in the Kershaw County library. Only now, after a recent move, do I realize I unwittingly created a library in my home.

And I’m a little puzzled by how I came to have a personal library this big.

See I’m not a book collector. I’m a reader – a “wait for the paperback” kind of girl who later discovered the utility and economy of ebooks.

I’m not the sort to proclaim my love and appreciation for books by writing 5 star Amazon and Goodreads reviews. Instead, I quietly compliment authors by passing their books on to other like-minded readers. (Okay, and I do some monthly book reviews, too.) “Book matchmakers” like me don’t usually accumulate a lot of books because we’re always thrusting our books into the hands of others.

I would love to blame my husband for all the books collecting dust on our shelves.  He’s an easy scapegoat, being a great lover of heavy tomes of American history, presidential biography and anything considered a “classic”.

But, as I look through these bookshelves, what I also see is a visual diary of my life.

Mixed in with the memoirs, travelogues and Oprah Book club picks, there’s a treasure trove of memories, souvenirs, and gifts.

There’s a signed copy of Gloria Steinem’s 1992 book Revolution from Within – a memento from meeting the feminist icon in my college years.

There are the Fodor’s guides I carried with me to the beaches of Costa Rica, on a bus through hair pin curves in the Ecuadorean Andes and walking the streets of Santo Domingo in the Dominican Republic.

There are dozens of cookbooks. Some of which have merely been pretty picture books for me. Others, though, are stained and dog-eared, like Mark Bittman’s How to Cook Everything. (Trust me and make Mark’s “Shrimp, My Way” one of your go-to recipes.)

And then, there’s David Leite’s The New Portuguese Table Cookbook. On pg. 156 is the “tortilha com chourico” – the first recipe Anonymous Hubby and I made together. It’s a frittata that’s delicious for breakfast, lunch or dinner. But to me, it just tastes like love.

The shelves are full of gifts like The Sheltering Sky from an English friend and M.K. Gandhi’s The Law and The Lawyers from a colleague. And my favorite gift – a 5 lb, 1221 page collection of Jane Austen’s novels from Hubby on our first Valentine’s Day together. It was this gift (along with the DVD of the BBC’s 1995 version of Pride & Prejudice) that said “he’s a keeper”!

And mixed in there, too, is “The Poetry of Pablo Neruda” and V.S. Naipaul’s A Turn in the South – books for Hubby that bear my heartfelt inscriptions. It’s fun to pull them from time to time and reminisce about the early days of our relationship.

And, oh, there are all the books I’ve meant to read, but never got around to. Books by Isabel Allende, Bill Bryson, and Junot Diaz. Books about Eva Peron and Edna St. Vincent Millay. The  more ebooks I read, the more I worry I’ll never get around to reading through the rest of my “physical” library.

My bookshelves are a diary of my interests, experiences and aspirations.

Perusing them is like a stroll down memory lane. I should take that stroll more often…

What are your books saying about?

(P.S. If you want to snoop through other people’s book shelves, head over to Modern Mrs. Darcy….)

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43 Comments

  1. What a fun post. I love books, they are a weakness. Someday I’m going to have to weed through them so they don’t overtake our house but it’s going to be hard.

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  3. There are entire sections of my bookshelves that make people uncomfortable– My degree is in African American Studies so I have a lot of books that basically read like “How White People Ruin Everything.” They’re great 😉

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  5. My bookshelves are slimming down as I gradually replace my physical books with ebooks. It’s lovely to have groaning shelves but oh, do they take up space! 😉 Travel books and cookbooks, though, those are the exceptions.

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  6. This post literally made me sigh… and relax… and smile. I love books, have far too many books. But they’re memories I hope to never part with so they’ll stay. (Thank heavens our house is big and we plan to never move, only buy more bookshelves.) Stopping by from SITS. So glad I did.

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  7. What a beautiful post! I laughed out loud at the opening lines and then nearly cried at the emotion in the middle. We keep moving internationally, and we try to cull our books every time, but we still end up in the 30 box range. Sigh! Thanks for sharing this at Booknificent Thursday! Loved it!
    Tina

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  9. I love this. I love my books. My shelves have no rhyme or reason – oh they start out in order, but soon between me and my girls they are a mishmash of classics, horror, History, mythology, fairy tales, books of all kind. I love to look through our bookshelves and see all that we have read, have left to read. I remember reading this one or that one with one of my girls, a few I remember my mom reading to me. I just love them all.

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  10. Visiting from The SITS girls link-up- what a great post! I’m probably not indicative of most because I was a librarian and now review books but my bookshelves (too many) definitely show my interests: books, libraries, fashion, literature first editions and signed copies. I love seeing what other people have on their shelves!

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  11. That post was very well put – very well indeed, and a delight to read. Thank you. Me and my shelves? Difficult. I keep them mostly in the attic (on timberbookshelves of course) and I love them, but why am I shy about them? More thought needed on that, but its a delight to go up and find old memories and meet old friends on those shelves.

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    • I feel a little uncomfortable sometimes when someone is looking closely at the books on my bookshelves. I’m a pretty reserved introvert, so I think for me it’s a feeling of vulnerability – like someone is seeing the real me – what I read, what I’m interested in, etc.

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  12. Jennifer says

    Thanks for all the books you’ve sent my way. I’ll confess publicly that I still have some of them, just in case you found yourself wondering where one had gotten off to. Miss you.

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    • Whenever I give a book to someone, I do so with the expectation that I will not see it again. ( : And I’m sure I have some of your books on my bookshelves! Miss you, too!

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  13. “A book matchmaker” … what a wonderful concept. I love how our bookshelves reveal so much about us. I’m quite enamored with your blog, as well. I’m glad I found it, will definitely come back to read more.

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  14. adrianscrazylife says

    I do love my books and there are some I’ll never get rid of, but there are a lot of them I have “outgrown” and could bear to part with. But like you, I am an E-reader and a library reader and a book borrower too, so I will never have all of my loves in the same place. But that’s OK, I can discover and re-discover the good ones as I go along. #SITSSharefest

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  15. I clicked over from Modern Mrs. Darcy and am really enjoying your blog! I love the idea of “bookshelf as life.” It’s inspiring me to think of my own book collection in a similar way.

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  16. justoneoftheboysblog says

    LOVE your post! I am always and forever lending/giving out my books as well – It’s the highest review that one can give! 🙂 Thank you so much for sharing!

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  17. I find that I always see my bookshelf acquisitions in a new light when hunting for titles for spine poetry – there’s always a couple of books that I come across that either make me think, “Now why have I kept that?”

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  18. Amanda Louise says

    I love this way of looking at your library. So many of my books have memories attached, which I think is partially why I have such a hard time letting them go! Mine probably say that I’m a nerd 🙂

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  19. stanleyandkatrina says

    🙂 We just recently moved and downsized BIG time. We had to say good-bye to the room full of books that we used to have. It was difficult – easily over 1,000 that we took to the local used book store. Thankfully we live less than a mile from the local library now. That is what made the process not as painful as it could have been. We love books here.
    ~Christine M/Cool Mom
    Tech Support for Stanley & Katrina

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  20. I was proudly looking at my bookshelf yesterday. I’m adding to it weekly and I devour books. I pity the person who doesn’t embrace reading.

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  21. I love the idea of bookshelves being “a visual diary of your life.”

    Thanks for sharing what’s on your shelves (in your diary?) with us. And that picture of Ellen and Portia’s shelves–gorgeous!

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  22. I love the comparison of our book collections to a visual diary…looking around my shelves I can see the history of our lives. Books are the only thing I allow myself to be sentimental about-we move too much to keep a lot of extra clutter around, but the books I’ll never give up!

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  23. You speak my language. And I love the phrase “it tastes like love.” I WILL be getting that cookbook. Thank you for sharing. I look forward to reading your book reviews. Amy

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    • If you’re wondering what “love” tastes like, it’s very filling and hearty. LOL! The recipe is a frittata with chorizo or linquica sausage, eggs, potatoes, garlic, red peppers and manchego cheese! I chuckled when I wrote “tastes like love”….you can tell I’ve just finished reading one of Shauna Niequist’s books!

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  24. You are so right. Book shelves tell the story of our lives. I first collected watercolor books, then pregnancy, then parenting, then sanity…jk on the sanity part, but you’ve hit on something!

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  25. I totally resonate with you! Bookshelves hold so many memories and reflections on our stages of life. Every time I go through our shelves I see our copy of the Travel Guide to Victoria, BC from 2007. We bought it for our honeymoon. The declutter part of me says, man I’ll never use or likely even open that again! But the other part of me loves it, and it makes me happy just to see the spine. So it stays. It’s not a fool proof system, but right now if I look at a book and I smile, it gets to stay.

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  26. I’m scared what my bookshelves would say about me because I read all kinds of books. I have always been an avid reader. I love doing book reviews too. I am always getting all the free books I can get my hands on too. Since I have my Kindle I enjoy reading even more.

    I totally enjoyed reading this post. It was such a great way to learn more about you.

    By the way, I’ve been getting up earlier.

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    • Crystal, you are doing better than me on the rising and shining! I was doing great the first week after the time change, but this week I’ve been sleeping in and rationalizing it because I’m so busy right now.

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  27. I love that you refer to yourself as a book matchmaker. It’s such a fitting description.

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    • I feel like my “book matchmaking” days are coming to an end now with the rise of E-Books…..That makes me sad. To me, putting a great book in someone’s hands is the equivalent of feeding them a delicious meal at my table. It’s a form of nourishment either way.

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  28. I could totally live in Ellen and Portia’s library forever, and never need another thing in life. I don’t collect as many books now that I have a Kindle, and the limited space in my home doesn’t allow it. Some of my tastes in books have changed over the years, and I think my shelves reflect a lot of that!

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  29. That library at the top is swoon-worthy! And I so agree with you about books telling the stories of our lives. We’ve picked up books at secondhand stores, given them to each other, and selected them for our girls. The minimalist in me tells me we have too many books but the sentimentalist tells me no, never get rid of them! =)

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  30. My husband is the book collector in our house. Shelves and shelves. I’m always telling him to get rid of some, because he’ll never read all of them again. But he just can’t part with them. Books really do become a part of your life.

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